Optics

They say to dress for the job you want, not the job you have. Optics are so important in so many aspects of life. Not just to appear one way because it’s easy to appear to be something you’re not. Easy to get away with things if you have convinced others of something that isn’t true.

Same with relationships – even potential ones.

She said not to wait for her. So green light on partying through the ladies while she gets her ducks in a row, right?

🤣 Lol nope. She knows you won’t be that cruel to them. She knows she’s in your head, and you love her being there. She feels guilty asking you to wait, and she knows it’s safe to ask you not to.

What feeling could you possibly have with another woman without calling out the Crow’s name? The answer is nothing more than normal friendship would allow… and even that is subject to her approval… because you like it that way.

No games. No technicalities. Be True. So – how is the best way to be true? Finally for once you have an advantage. She has seen falseness and the Pain it brings.

The clouds of darkness that have isolated her and wounded her are a slow-moving cold front. For far too long she has felt they circled her, but in truth she has now finally begun to leave them behind.

Be like the powerful lighthouse beaming light through those clouds. There are still plenty of dark days ahead of her. And sometimes she might lose herself in the darkness trying to get out… and if that happens… shine harder… 🙂

She fears a part of him that is splintered into her mind that won’t leave her.

She says you’re “not him”. Concerns of a sexual nature in that regard as well.

But you know what? Hell no you aren’t him. And you’re proud of it.

He can’t grow. You can.

Oh sure he might be strong in the present in an area where you are weak. Just as you are strong in areas where he is weak.

But you will get stronger there… while he will never have what you already do.

And deep down she knows it.

You were meant for her.

Show her why.

Grow into her.

Show her the love a true man possesses.

Show her. 🙂